Written by Oh Seung Hyeon


Today, how many times have we crossed the boundaries of others without knowing? Or have we really respected others and asked their agreement? There are invisible boundaries among people and those boundaries are all different. A person, who takes care of other people’s feeling, keeps his or her own boundary and respects other people’s boundaries, too. Keeping the boundaries does not mean we should push out others by drawing the line. Instead, keeping the boundaries is necessary to maintain the wise relationship and manner as well.

In this book, there are actual examples based on diverse relationships in ordinary life as well as abundant literature, movies, animation, newspaper articles, data, and thesis. By showing all those information, the writer teaches us why we should respect other people’s boundaries and how we can ask agreement and politely reject proposals. Furthermore, the writer has easily organized the concept of sexual self-determination and comprehensive sexual education. She also explains that the education to respect others’ boundaries starting from the youth have a huge influence on preventing and dealing with sexual violence.